Easy steps to get over Rejection
Rejection... . . I used to be so scared of it, the feeling of someone not wanting me, someone saying NO to me, someone thinking I wasn't good enough for them. Just thinking about it, gives me chills up my spine and brings me back to those dark moments.
Those moments where I was desperately seeking for someone else approval, that I was good enough, that I was pretty enough, that I was the badesst girl around, that I could hold up anything that I was given and I would still stand graciously and fierce. Those moments that I did everything it took to be consider cool, to fit in. Those moments when I was on a fall down to self-destruction but I didn't care because someone else was looking at me, and in my head I thought I was the best, because unlike others, I was still here, I was the best at doing this and I had to show it to everyone! . . . And then things changed... I changed! I wanted something else for myself, I knew I could be someone else, whoever I decided I wanted to be. And it hit me! I was alone! There was no one there to cheer for my change, in fact, they resented me, they called me names, a FAKE, a HYPOCRITE, or even better, WHO DO YOU THINK YOU ARE? BETTER THAN US?!
And of course, being afraid of rejection, of not being the person that fits in, being the outkast; I went back over and over again, but it didn't work, none of the numerous times that I try to re-live and be that person again... something had changed, I changed!
So there I went, on my lonely path to change, but this time I was determined, I didn't give a fuck what anyone would say, I didn't not care anymore about name callings or what other beautiful opinions others had. I had enough! I wanted my life back! I wanted to feel like myself again and not what others expected of me!
And somewhere along this journey I came across to a post that one of my friends put up and it read: "Every next level of your life will demand a different YOU", and something clicked! My whole journey started to make sense, because I finally knew that to be able to live the life I wanted, I had to go through all these bumpy roads and I had to do it all by myself. No one's approval, not even mines.
And I am not the same person I was 2 years ago, or 6 months ago, or even 3 weeks ago; but I am a woman with a mission, a purpose, and taking the actions I need to better myself and become my biggest fan and cheerleader!
Life is waiting for you, take charge and make it happen. Don't live in regret! Don't rejection or failure or anyone or anything stops you to become the shining star that you were born to be!
Love and light, Maria C. Krause. XXX
Mindset and Business Coach.
Founder and Owner of Soul Sister's Universe.
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